The New Home

Have a survival kit prepared for your first night in the new home. Try to include things that will get you through the night if it's too late to unpack or in case the movers failed to show up. Helpful items include: non-perishable food, a can opener, paper plates, plastic utensils, bottled water, a flashlight, a few towels, sheets, toiletries, a blanket, toilet paper, pen and paper, a few small games or magazines and a change of clothes for everyone.

Make sure you also bring with you a basic toolbox. This is one of the most important things to have on hand when you're setting up your new home. It should include basic tools and hardware, such as a hammer, screwdrivers, nails, hooks, etc.

Now it's time to unpack! Before you begin unpacking randomly, sit down with your family. Discuss a plan, including where things will go, who is responsible for what, etc. It will help things function more smoothly. Go one room at a time, and do so as quickly as possible. You want to have a quiet retreat and be free of boxes! Having at least one room done quickly will also give you and your family a place to go when you need a break from all of the unpacking activities. First arrange your furniture, then unpack accessories and personal items.

Try to make the first night in your new home a special moment to remember. Go ahead and order take-out Chinese food, or pizza. In fact, sweeten up the evening with flowers, candles and music. It will really make a big difference and will help you to unwind and lose the stress!

As soon as your bedroom furniture is delivered, set it up, get the sheets on the bed and be done with this part of getting settled in your new home. You'll be thankful to have everything ready for sleeping later on that night when you're really tired after unpacking everything.

Let everyone know that you moved. This can be done with simple postcards, or even an e-mail. Finally, become familiar with your surroundings. Mark some days on the calendar to get to know where you live. This is a great time to figure out where the supermarket, bank, post office, etc. are and will give you a chance to get familiar with your area. If there is a tourist bureau in town, stop by and see what events and opportunities your town will be offering.

Best of luck with your move!

This article was prepared with the help of Maria Gracia.

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